Jaded???

SO...it's almost Valentine's day...(or for me, ANTI Valentine's day....:-)

And inevitably... I have the same conversation with co-workers I have every now and then. They call me bitter and jaded..... I take exception to this...

While it is true that I don't believe in marriage (and yes i tried it...it wasn't for me...but i did get my amazing child out of it...) I most certainly still believe in love!!!!!

I still want to be in a relationship.

 I still want to be with someone who makes me laugh, and makes me think and thinks I am amazing just the way I am.

What I don't want is to give up pieces of myself to be with that person ... This has made me incredibly fussy and my "list"  is long and extensive as to what that person should be like.

So what happens if you don't find that person I am asked??....

Funny, I ask myself that very question every now and then .Am I okay with being on my own ??...alone..??

Sometimes my answer depends on my mood or the day...but I know one thing for sure..I am done settling...

I guess time will tell me the rest...:-)

Enjoy you Heart day!


Much love,


T

xo


“Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired.” ~ Robert Frost

On weight 2

As previously stated...one of the biggest things I gained while losing my weight this time was confidence!~ so here is proof...

Negative body image be damned!!!!!!!

My first bikini in my entire life...Age 43...Jan 30th, 2011  Coco Cay, Bahamas!

And just for good measure... the cute one piece i got to go with the bikini.(Pic taken at Hard Rock Hotel ,Orlando Feb 2/11

"You must do the thing you think you cannot do."  ~  

Eleanor Roosevelt